Activities for Good Manners for Kids — 150 Practical Ideas

activities for good manners for kids

Good manners are the building blocks of respectful relationships, confident communication, and happy communities.

Teaching manners to children is not about rigid rules — it’s about helping them understand empathy, self-control, and how their actions affect others.

Below is a ready-to-use, copy-paste friendly article with explanations, tips, and 150 activities for good manners for kids.

Each activity includes ages, quick materials, steps, and what it teaches. Use these at home, in school, or in after-school programs. Let’s make learning manners fun!

Must Read: 150 Outdoor Play Ideas for Students

Why Teach Good Manners Early?

Teaching manners early helps children:

  • Build empathy and emotional intelligence.
  • Improve social skills and friendships.
  • Gain confidence in public and formal settings.
  • Become polite communicators and better listeners.
    Manners are habits — and habits form through practice, modeling, and gentle correction. Activities make learning active and memorable.

How to Use This List

  1. Pick activities that match the child’s age and attention span.
  2. Model the behavior yourself — children copy adults.
  3. Keep sessions short for younger kids (10–20 minutes).
  4. Praise effort and progress, not perfection.
  5. Repeat activities regularly to form habits.

150 Activities for Good Manners for Kids

  1. Please-and-Thank-You Game
    Ages: 2–5 • Materials: None • Ask for things only after saying “please”; always reply “thank you.” • Teaches polite requests and gratitude.
  2. Role-Play Restaurant
    Ages: 3–8 • Materials: Play food, menus • Kids take turns as server and customer practicing polite ordering and saying thanks. • Teaches courteous language and patience.
  3. Greeting Relay
    Ages: 4–9 • Materials: Timer • Children greet each other (handshake/wave/“Good morning”) quickly in a circle. • Teaches polite greetings and confidence.
  4. Listening Ears Practice
    Ages: 3–7 • Materials: Storybook • Read a short story; ask kids to retell one line each. • Teaches active listening and attention.
  5. Table Manners Picnic
    Ages: 4–10 • Materials: Blanket, snacks • Practice napkin use, passing food, chewing quietly. Make it a fun picnic. • Teaches dining etiquette.
  6. Thank-You Card Craft
    Ages: 4–12 • Materials: Paper, crayons, stamps • Make cards for someone who helped; write one sentence of thanks. • Teaches gratitude and handwriting.
  7. Excuse Me Drill
    Ages: 3–6 • Materials: None • Practice saying “excuse me” for interrupting, passing in front, or burping politely. • Teaches respectful interruptions and awareness.
  8. Polite Phone Practice
    Ages: 6–12 • Materials: Toy phone or real supervised phone • Practice greeting, stating name, asking politely, and saying goodbye. • Teaches telephone manners and clarity.
  9. Share and Take Turns Circle
    Ages: 2–6 • Materials: One toy • Set a timer and rotate turns, praising patience. • Teaches sharing and delayed gratification.
  10. Compliment Chain
    Ages: 4–10 • Materials: None • Each child gives a genuine compliment to the next person. • Teaches positivity and noticing others.
  11. Please-Token Jar
    Ages: 3–8 • Materials: Jar, tokens • Give tokens when kids say please/thank you; trade tokens for small rewards. • Reinforces polite language.
  12. Quiet Voices Practice
    Ages: 3–8 • Materials: Soft music • Play a game where kids must whisper answers. • Teaches volume control and consideration.
  13. Door-Holding Race
    Ages: 4–10 • Materials: Doors • Kids take turns holding the door for a partner and praising the action. • Teaches thoughtfulness and courtesy.
  14. Empathy Storytime
    Ages: 5–12 • Materials: Book about feelings • Read and ask how characters might feel and why. • Teaches perspective-taking.
  15. Helping Hands Day
    Ages: 3–9 • Materials: Chore list • Assign small helper tasks (set table, feed pet) and praise. • Teaches helpfulness and responsibility.
  16. Silent Thank-You Notes
    Ages: 6–12 • Materials: Sticky notes • Write short thank-you notes and leave them for family members. • Teaches appreciation and surprise kindness.
  17. Excuse Me Ball
    Ages: 4–8 • Materials: Soft ball • Toss the ball; receiver says “excuse me” or “sorry” depending on context. • Teaches polite responses.
  18. Role-Play Apology
    Ages: 5–10 • Materials: Scenario cards • Practice saying sincere apologies and fixing mistakes. • Teaches accountability and empathy.
  19. Please-and-Request Song
    Ages: 2–6 • Materials: None • Sing a short jingle that includes “please” and “thank you.” • Teaches polite vocabulary through music.
  20. Manners Puppet Show
    Ages: 3–9 • Materials: Puppets • Puppets model polite behavior in a short skit. Kids act out solutions. • Teaches modeling and creativity.
  21. Excuse Me Line Practice
    Ages: 4–8 • Materials: None • Pretend a line forms; practice saying “excuse me” to pass politely. • Teaches public courtesy.
  22. Set-the-Table Race
    Ages: 4–9 • Materials: Plates, cutlery • Teach proper placement of items and why setting helps family meals. • Teaches responsibility and table etiquette.
  23. Gratitude Jar Routine
    Ages: 3–12 • Materials: Jar, paper slips • Family writes one thing they’re thankful for each day. Read weekly. • Teaches gratitude habits.
  24. Respectful Listening Game
    Ages: 5–12 • Materials: None • One child speaks for 30 seconds; others must listen without interrupting. Praise listeners. • Teaches respect and turn-taking.
  25. Manners Chart with Stars
    Ages: 3–8 • Materials: Chart, stickers • Reward acts like saying please or sharing with stars. • Teaches positive reinforcement.
  26. Proper Table Talk
    Ages: 6–12 • Materials: Conversation cards • Use cards to encourage polite topics and no phone focus during meals. • Teaches conversation skills and manners.
  27. Thank-You Video Message
    Ages: 7–12 • Materials: Phone • Have kids record and send a short thank-you to a relative. • Teaches modern gratitude and tech manners.
  28. Gifting Practice
    Ages: 4–10 • Materials: Small wrapped items • Practice giving and receiving gifts with thank-you responses. • Teaches generosity and graciousness.
  29. Please-and-Thank-You Scavenger
    Ages: 3–7 • Materials: List of polite acts • Find moments during the day to use please/thanks; check off items. • Teaches awareness of polite moments.
  30. Manners Memory Game
    Ages: 4–9 • Materials: Cards with scenarios • Match pairs and discuss the polite response. • Teaches situational manners.
  31. Telephone Politeness Relay
    Ages: 7–12 • Materials: Script • Practice relaying a polite message clearly. • Teaches clarity and respect in communication.
  32. Greeting Cards to Neighbors
    Ages: 5–12 • Materials: Cards • Make friendly notes for neighbors (e.g., “Welcome!”). • Teaches community manners.
  33. Help-a-Friend Challenge
    Ages: 6–12 • Materials: None • Challenge kids to do three helpful actions for friends in a week. • Teaches kindness and cooperation.
  34. Role-Play Waiting Rooms
    Ages: 4–10 • Materials: Chairs, magazines • Practice quiet waiting, reading, and patience. • Teaches patience and respect for shared spaces.
  35. Table Manners Bingo
    Ages: 5–10 • Materials: Bingo cards • Mark behaviors like “chew with mouth closed.” Reward a row. • Teaches dining etiquette playfully.
  36. Compliment Journal
    Ages: 7–12 • Materials: Notebook • Kids write one compliment a day about someone else. • Teaches positivity and appreciation.
  37. Say-Please Puppet Theatre
    Ages: 3–7 • Materials: Puppets • Puppets practice asking politely and receiving responses. • Teaches polite phrasing.
  38. Neighborly Trash Pickup
    Ages: 6–12 • Materials: Gloves, bags • Collect litter in the neighborhood together. • Teaches civic manners and responsibility.
  39. Cover Your Cough Practice
    Ages: 3–8 • Materials: None • Practice coughing into elbow and saying “excuse me.” • Teaches hygiene and courtesy.
  40. Birthday Manners Role Play
    Ages: 4–10 • Materials: Cake props • Practice saying “thank you” and opening gifts politely. • Teaches gracious receiving.
  41. Listening Museum Game
    Ages: 5–10 • Materials: Quiet objects • Children walk silently and then describe what they saw/heard. • Teaches observation and silence in special places.
  42. Please-and-Thanks Craft Time
    Ages: 3–8 • Materials: Craft supplies • Make “thank-you” crafts and practice saying the words while giving. • Teaches gratitude in action.
  43. Helping with Shoes
    Ages: 3–6 • Materials: Shoes, mats • Practice tying, lining up shoes, and offering help to others. • Teaches helpfulness and orderliness.
  44. Polite Excuses in Public
    Ages: 6–12 • Materials: Scenario cards • Practice short, polite phrases for public mishaps. • Teaches composure and politeness.
  45. Set a Family Rule Night
    Ages: 5–12 • Materials: Paper, markers • Kids help create rules like “We say please” then practice them all week. • Teaches shared ownership of manners.
  46. Manners Drama Skits
    Ages: 7–12 • Materials: Costume pieces • Groups act out rude vs. polite reactions and discuss outcomes. • Teaches cause-effect of behavior.
  47. Polite Photo Poses
    Ages: 3–8 • Materials: Camera • Teach saying “cheese” and asking for permission before taking pictures. • Teaches consent and courtesy.
  48. Return Borrowed Items
    Ages: 6–12 • Materials: None • Practice returning toys/books with a thank-you note. • Teaches responsibility and respect for others’ property.
  49. Excuse Me for Interrupting Practice
    Ages: 4–9 • Materials: None • Practice raising hand and saying “excuse me” to add to a group talk. • Teaches patience and turn-taking.
  50. Empathy Mirror
    Ages: 5–10 • Materials: Mirror • Role-play feeling expressions and mirror them back to discuss emotions. • Teaches empathy and recognition of feelings.
  51. Say-Please Scenarios Cards
    Ages: 4–8 • Materials: Cards • Read scenarios and have children respond with polite language. • Teaches context-based manners.
  52. Thank-You Flower
    Ages: 3–7 • Materials: Paper flowers • Write one thank-you message per petal for family helpers. • Teaches gratitude and creativity.
  53. Listening Walk
    Ages: 4–10 • Materials: None • Walk quietly and list sounds heard. Discuss why listening matters. • Teaches attentive presence.
  54. Helpful Chore Jar
    Ages: 3–9 • Materials: Jar with chore slips • Kids draw a chore to help the family and do it cheerfully. • Teaches contribution and pride.
  55. Polite Game Show
    Ages: 6–12 • Materials: Buzzers, questions • Quiz about manners; award polite answer points. • Teaches manners knowledge and fun competition.
  56. Excuse Me While Passing
    Ages: 3–8 • Materials: Chairs in a row • Practice saying “excuse me” while walking between seated friends. • Teaches thoughtfulness in tight spaces.
  57. Gratitude Photo Album
    Ages: 6–12 • Materials: Photos, album • Create an album with captions thanking people who helped. • Teaches memory of kindness and narration.
  58. Polite Texting Practice
    Ages: 9–12 • Materials: Device • Teach polite message format (greeting, ask, thanks) for texting friends/family. • Teaches digital manners.
  59. Thank-You Tea Party
    Ages: 4–9 • Materials: Toy tea set • Invite family members and practice polite small talk and thanks. • Teaches social niceties and hosting.
  60. Seat-Offering Game
    Ages: 5–10 • Materials: Chairs • Practice offering seats to elders or guests. • Teaches respect and awareness.
  61. Please-and-Thanks Sticker Chart
    Ages: 3–7 • Materials: Stickers • Give stickers for polite phrases used during the day. • Teaches reinforcement and visibility of good behavior.
  62. Listening Partner Pairing
    Ages: 6–12 • Materials: Timer • Pairs tell each other about day while partner listens and asks one question. • Teaches attentive listening and follow-up.
  63. Table Manners Flashcards
    Ages: 4–9 • Materials: Flashcards • Show card (e.g., “napkin”), act out correct usage. • Teaches practical table skills.
  64. Gracious Winner/Loser Role Play
    Ages: 5–10 • Materials: Board game • Practice saying “good game” and shaking hands after play. • Teaches sportsmanship.
  65. Politeness Pledge
    Ages: 7–12 • Materials: Paper for signatures • Children sign a short pledge to use polite words daily. • Teaches commitment and accountability.
  66. Say-Please Scavenger Hunt
    Ages: 4–8 • Materials: List • Find things and ask for each politely to get the clue. • Teaches practice under fun conditions.
  67. Helping at Mealtime Rotation
    Ages: 3–9 • Materials: Chore list • Rotate roles such as setting, serving, clearing, thanking. • Teaches teamwork and manners.
  68. Respectful Language Swap
    Ages: 6–12 • Materials: None • Swap rude words for polite alternatives and practice sentences. • Teaches vocabulary replacement and civility.
  69. Manners Role Cards
    Ages: 5–10 • Materials: Cards • Children draw roles (teacher, waiter, neighbor) and demonstrate polite behavior. • Teaches situational adaptability.
  70. Thank-You Chain Mail
    Ages: 7–12 • Materials: Envelopes, notes • Write chain letters of thanks passing them along to classmates. • Teaches sharing appreciation.
  71. Public Transport Manners Practice
    Ages: 6–12 • Materials: Pretend bus setup • Practice offering seats, quiet voices, and exiting politely. • Teaches public consideration.
  72. Excuse Me When Sneezing Drill
    Ages: 3–6 • Materials: None • Practice covering sneezes and saying “excuse me.” • Teaches hygiene and politeness.
  73. Polite Problem Solving
    Ages: 8–12 • Materials: Conflict scenarios • Role-play disputes and use polite language to solve them. • Teaches conflict-resolution and calm speech.
  74. Gratitude Walk
    Ages: 5–12 • Materials: None • Walk and name three things to be thankful for, out loud or privately. • Teaches mindfulness and appreciation.
  75. Polite Compliment Day
    Ages: 4–10 • Materials: None • Everyone must give one sincere compliment to someone. • Teaches noticing good traits and courage.
  76. Helping Grocery Trip
    Ages: 5–12 • Materials: Shopping list • Give children tasks like choosing produce and thanking the cashier. • Teaches manners in real-world errands.
  77. No-Yelling Challenge
    Ages: 6–12 • Materials: Chart • Keep a day without yelling; reward calm communication. • Teaches self-control and respectful tone.
  78. Phone Etiquette Poster
    Ages: 8–12 • Materials: Paper, markers • Create a poster of polite phone rules (no loud calls, ask before photos). • Teaches public device manners.
  79. Volunteer Together
    Ages: 7–12 • Materials: Depends on activity • Help at a local charity and practice respectful interaction. • Teaches community manners and empathy.
  80. Please-and-Thank-You Puppet Letters
    Ages: 4–8 • Materials: Paper, puppet • Make puppets that write and send thank-you notes. • Teaches courtesy and creative expression.
  81. Respectful Interruptions Jar
    Ages: 5–9 • Materials: Jar, slips • Kids write questions to save for appropriate times rather than interrupting. • Teaches patience and organization.
  82. Polite Directions Game
    Ages: 6–12 • Materials: Blindfold • One child gives directions politely; other follows blindfolded. • Teaches clear speech and trust.
  83. Helping Hands Story Circle
    Ages: 4–8 • Materials: None • Share a time they helped; other kids clap and say “thank you.” • Teaches recognition of helpful acts.
  84. Table Manners Quiz
    Ages: 7–12 • Materials: Quiz paper • Short multiple-choice quiz about table etiquette. • Teaches knowledge and recall.
  85. Say-Excuse-Me Skip Counting
    Ages: 4–7 • Materials: None • Combine counting games with saying “excuse me” when moving past friends. • Teaches manners and math blending.
  86. Respectful Note Passing
    Ages: 7–12 • Materials: Paper • Pass kind notes instead of whispering in class. • Teaches positivity and non-disruptive communication.
  87. Thank-You Chain Bracelet
    Ages: 5–10 • Materials: Beads, thread • Make bracelets for people you want to thank and give them with a note. • Teaches personal gifting and gratitude.
  88. Manners Morning Routine
    Ages: 3–8 • Materials: Routine chart • Include “say good morning” and “help tidy” into daily routine. • Teaches consistency and polite starts.
  89. Quiet Library Walk
    Ages: 4–10 • Materials: Books • Practice entering a quiet space, whispering, and returning books neatly. • Teaches respect for shared learning spaces.
  90. Polite Email Writing
    Ages: 9–12 • Materials: Computer • Teach greeting, concise message, please, thank you, and signature. • Teaches digital professionalism and courtesy.
  91. Please-and-Thank-You Skit Competition
    Ages: 6–12 • Materials: Props • Teams perform skits focusing on polite exchanges; judges award points. • Teaches performance and manners in context.
  92. Helping in the Kitchen
    Ages: 5–12 • Materials: Simple recipe • Kids help stir, set table, and thank cooks. • Teaches appreciation for work and cooperation.
  93. Polite Traffic Crossing
    Ages: 4–8 • Materials: Crosswalk pretend • Practice waiting, looking both ways, and saying thank you to helpers. • Teaches safety and courtesy.
  94. Respectful Question Time
    Ages: 6–12 • Materials: Question box • Write questions and practice asking politely during a set time. • Teaches focused inquiry and etiquette.
  95. Goodbye Rituals
    Ages: 3–8 • Materials: None • Create a warm goodbye routine (hug, wave, “see you”). • Teaches closure and positive relationships.
  96. Please-and-Thanks Board Game Night
    Ages: 5–12 • Materials: Board games • Emphasize polite language during turns and congratulate winners. • Teaches sportsmanship and social play.
  97. Empathy Drawing
    Ages: 5–10 • Materials: Paper, crayons • Draw how someone else might feel in a situation and discuss. • Teaches visual empathy and expression.
  98. Card for a Caregiver
    Ages: 4–10 • Materials: Card stock • Make appreciation cards for teachers, nurses, or bus drivers. • Teaches community gratitude.
  99. Polite Question Practice
    Ages: 3–7 • Materials: Flashcards • Ask questions politely (“Could I please?”) and practice replies. • Teaches phrasing and confidence.
  100. Helping at Bedtime
    Ages: 3–8 • Materials: None • Encourage putting toys away, folding blankets, and saying thank you. • Teaches end-of-day responsibility.
  101. Respectful Debate Rules
    Ages: 9–12 • Materials: Topic list • Teach rules: no interrupting, no insults, use “I think” language. • Teaches respectful disagreement and critical thinking.
  102. Polite Elevator Practice
    Ages: 5–10 • Materials: Elevator pretend • Practice waiting, saying excuse me, and polite conversations. • Teaches compact-space etiquette.
  103. Thank-You Call Practice
    Ages: 7–12 • Materials: Phone • Role-play calling someone to say thanks; practice tone and brevity. • Teaches telephone manners and gratitude.
  104. Helping a Classmate
    Ages: 6–12 • Materials: School supplies • Teach offering help when someone struggles and saying it’s okay to ask. • Teaches empathy and support.
  105. Manners Matching Game
    Ages: 4–9 • Materials: Cards with behavior and response • Match behavior to the polite response. • Teaches situational responses.
  106. Clean-Up Cheer
    Ages: 3–7 • Materials: Music • Turn clean-up into a polite team activity with a cheer and thanks at the end. • Teaches cooperation and gratitude.
  107. Polite Apology Poster
    Ages: 7–12 • Materials: Paper, markers • Make a poster describing a sincere apology (acknowledge, remorse, fix). • Teaches responsible communication.
  108. Say-Excuse-Me Role Swap
    Ages: 5–9 • Materials: Scenario cards • Swap roles (driver/passenger) and practice polite phrases appropriate to role. • Teaches adaptability and empathy.
  109. Thankful Dinner Talk
    Ages: 4–12 • Materials: None • Each person says one thanks at dinner; discuss why. • Teaches gratitude sharing and family bonding.
  110. Manners Puppet Mailbox
    Ages: 4–8 • Materials: Box • Puppets send polite messages to each other in a mailbox game. • Teaches written courtesy and play.
  111. Please-and-Thanks Flashlight Game
    Ages: 3–7 • Materials: Flashlight • In dark room, each child asks for the flashlight politely to be the “story teller.” • Teaches patience and polite requests.
  112. Helping With Homework
    Ages: 6–12 • Materials: Homework tasks • Teach offering help and praising effort, not just results. • Teaches supportive manners and encouragement.
  113. Politeness Poster for Class
    Ages: 7–12 • Materials: Poster paper • Create a class poster listing manners everyone agrees to follow. • Teaches shared norms and accountability.
  114. Share-a-Story Circle
    Ages: 4–10 • Materials: Story prompts • Each child shares a short story; others respond politely with questions. • Teaches public speaking and respectful curiosity.
  115. Respectful Remarks Jar
    Ages: 5–10 • Materials: Jar, slips • Drop a slip when someone is polite; read them on Fridays. • Teaches community recognition.
  116. Please-and-Thanks Tic-Tac-Toe
    Ages: 4–8 • Materials: Game board • Place marker only after saying please or thank you. • Teaches integrated polite practice.
  117. Polite Picture Day Prep
    Ages: 4–9 • Materials: Mirror, clothes • Practice saying “May I?” when borrowing clothes and thanking owners. • Teaches consent and appreciation.
  118. Helping Elderly Role-Play
    Ages: 7–12 • Materials: Scenario cards • Practice offering seat, speaking slowly, and showing patience. • Teaches respect across ages.
  119. Excuse Me for Passing Notes
    Ages: 6–12 • Materials: Notes • Practice passing notes politely or asking permission to pass. • Teaches classroom etiquette.
  120. Polite Compliment Poster
    Ages: 5–10 • Materials: Paper • Create a poster of nice things you can say to friends. • Teaches vocabulary for kindness.
  121. Thank-You Song Recording
    Ages: 6–12 • Materials: Phone • Record a short thank-you song and send to someone. • Teaches creative gratitude.
  122. Please-and-Thanks Treasure Hunt
    Ages: 4–8 • Materials: Clues • Each clue requires saying please/thanks to receive next hint. • Teaches polite habit under excitement.
  123. Helping with Pets
    Ages: 4–10 • Materials: Pet supplies • Teach feeding, gentle handling, and saying thanks to the helper. • Teaches caretaking manners.
  124. Polite Compliment Jar
    Ages: 6–12 • Materials: Jar, slips • Write compliments for classmates and draw one each day. • Teaches daily positivity.
  125. Thank-You Chalk Messages
    Ages: 4–10 • Materials: Chalk • Write sidewalk thank-you messages to community helpers. • Teaches public appreciation.
  126. Respectful Listening Challenge
    Ages: 7–12 • Materials: Timer • See who can listen most attentively during a short story and answer details. • Teaches focused attention and memory.
  127. Please-and-Thanks Dance
    Ages: 3–7 • Materials: Music • Dance freeze game — freeze and say a polite phrase when the music stops. • Teaches manners plus movement.
  128. Helping with Garden
    Ages: 4–12 • Materials: Seeds, watering can • Tending plants and thanking helpers for care. • Teaches nurturing and responsibility.
  129. Polite Directions Treasure Map
    Ages: 6–12 • Materials: Map • Give polite directions using “please” to guide teammates. • Teaches clear speech and courtesy.
  130. Say-Please Chalkboard
    Ages: 4–9 • Materials: Chalkboard • Kids write polite words or draw scenes of polite acts. • Teaches expression and literacy.
  131. Respectful Silence Game
    Ages: 5–10 • Materials: None • Whoever stays quiet longest while others do a task gets rewarded for patience. • Teaches calmness and self-control.
  132. Gratitude Video Diary
    Ages: 8–12 • Materials: Device • Record short daily clips saying what they’re thankful for. • Teaches reflection and digital responsibility.
  133. Please-and-Thanks Story Completion
    Ages: 5–9 • Materials: Story starter cards • Finish stories with polite resolutions. • Teaches narrative and moral outcomes.
  134. Helping with Laundry
    Ages: 5–12 • Materials: Laundry basket • Teach sorting, folding and thanking adults who wash clothes. • Teaches chores and appreciation.
  135. Polite Exit Practice
    Ages: 3–8 • Materials: Door props • Practice saying “excuse me” and “goodbye” when leaving groups. • Teaches closure and courtesy.
  136. Thank-You Postcards
    Ages: 6–12 • Materials: Postcards, stamps • Send postcards to grandparents thanking them for visits. • Teaches writing and gratitude.
  137. Please-and-Thanks Role Reversal
    Ages: 6–12 • Materials: Scenario cards • Children act as parents and practice polite requests to their “kids.” • Teaches empathy for caregivers.
  138. Helping with School Supplies
    Ages: 5–10 • Materials: Supplies • Organize and share school materials respectfully. • Teaches consideration and sharing.
  139. Politeness Detective
    Ages: 7–12 • Materials: Notebook • Observe polite acts in school and report back with praises. • Teaches recognition and modeling.
  140. Thank-You Songwriting
    Ages: 8–12 • Materials: Paper, instrument • Write a short song thanking a helper and perform it. • Teaches creative appreciation.
  141. Please-and-Thanks Storybook
    Ages: 4–9 • Materials: Blank book • Create a book where characters use polite words and solve problems. • Teaches storytelling and manners.
  142. Helping with Car Trips
    Ages: 4–10 • Materials: Trip tasks • Offer maps, help pack snacks, thank driver. • Teaches travel courtesy and teamwork.
  143. Polite Poster for Bus
    Ages: 5–10 • Materials: Paper • Design bus manners poster (sit, voice level, offer seat). • Teaches public transport etiquette.
  144. Respectful Requests Practice
    Ages: 7–12 • Materials: Scripts • Practice asking for things politely even when frustrated. • Teaches emotional regulation and civility.
  145. Thank-You Box for Teachers
    Ages: 5–12 • Materials: Box, notes • Fill a box with reasons to thank teachers and present it. • Teaches organized gratitude.
  146. Please-and-Thanks Dance Freeze
    Ages: 3–7 • Materials: Music • Freeze and deliver a polite phrase when music stops; applause after. • Teaches practice in a fun setting.
  147. Helping Pet Shelter Visit
    Ages: 8–12 • Materials: Shelter arranged • Volunteer gently and say thank-you to staff. • Teaches compassion and community manners.
  148. Polite Grocery Checkout Practice
    Ages: 5–12 • Materials: Play money • Role-play paying, saying please/thank you to the cashier. • Teaches real-world transaction manners.
  149. Respectful Compliment Circle
    Ages: 6–12 • Materials: None • Sit in circle; each child compliments the person on their right. • Teaches noticing strengths and delivering praise.
  150. Good Manners Pledge Book
    Ages: 7–12 • Materials: Notebook • Children write how they will be polite and review weekly. • Teaches reflection, commitment, and progress tracking.

Quick Tips to Make These Activities Work Every Day

  • Model first. Demonstrate polite phrases and actions often; kids imitate adults.
  • Keep it short and fun. Young children learn best through play and repetition.
  • Praise specifics. Instead of “good job,” say “I really liked how you said ‘thank you’.”
  • Use natural consequences. For example, if a child refuses to wait their turn, they may miss the next round of a game.
  • Be patient and consistent. Manners take time to become habits. Gentle reminders work better than harsh scolding.

Must Read: Yoga Games for School Students

Final Thoughts

Teaching manners is one of the greatest gifts you can give a child.

These 150 activities are ready to copy-paste into lesson plans, parent newsletters, classroom materials, or daily routines. Start with a few that match your child’s age and environment, model the behaviors yourself, and celebrate small wins.

Over time, simple habits like saying “please,” listening carefully, and offering help will become second nature — and they’ll carry children far in life.

SKS Team

With years of experience, I work alongside a passionate group of educators and professionals to create a welcoming and supportive environment. At SKS International Gurukul, we focus on helping students grow both academically and personally, ensuring they have everything they need to succeed.

Leave a Comment

Do not miss this experience!

Ask us any questions

Get in touch